Ever since I can remember playing volleyball, my dad has always told my team and I one thing; "don't say can't". Whenever he would tell us to do something in practice and someone said they can't do it, my dad would ask, "did you just say the "C" word?" Then he would make the whole team do push-ups just because one person said can't. Up until he stopped coaching my team, we would had to do push-ups almost every practice because someone said the word. We all eventually broke out of that bad habit and I still try not to say it; even in everyday life.
Having my dad tell me not to say can't at a young age has helped me in volleyball and in life. It taught me that just because you don't think you do something, doesn't mean you can't do it. I have always been someone to try something even if I don't think I can do it, but just by saying I can, has helped me even more. It's all about positive self talk. It never hurts to try. If you don't even try, you will be unsuccessful and you will never know if you would have been if you had just tried. If you do try, there is a chance that you will be successful, but even if you aren't, at least you will know. All I can say now is live with no regrets, and "don't say can't".
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Yeah that's really inspiring! I can see how that would help build confidence in volleyball and in other things
ReplyDeleteThat is cool! I probably would have benefited from someone telling me that...that and sorry.
ReplyDeleteThat is a great memory, it is so cool that your dad was your coach.
RANDY! YAY!
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